Authorities say a South Florida teen committed suicide in front of a live online webcam audience after blogging about his plan to kill himself.
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some people were encouraging him to go through with it, others tried to talk him out of it and a few debated whether the dose he took was lethal.
TheStar.com | World | Florida teenager commits suicide online.
I’m always concerned when my friends post sad emo blogs or MSN names or Facebook statuses, whatever it is online. Whenever I see that, I try to make it a point to message even if just to say “hi, how are you?” just to make sure they are ok.
If they need to talk, there is a willing ear to listen, shoulder to cry on. If not, I’m sure they’ll just be happy to know that someone cares.
So what I can’t understand, is how people can see this guy committing suicide online and “encouraging him to go through with it”.
I suppose maybe some people thought it was a joke, especially since there were people who “debated if the dose he took was lethal”.
Props to the people who tried to talk him out of it and even to the guy who notified the moderator and the moderator who then traced his location and notified police.
Recently, it seems that people seem to not want to talk too deeply about things, yet are content posting a blog (at times abstract), or short brief statement of what they are feeliing on a Tweet or Facebook Status or MSN name … and perhaps take some comfort in knowing they get comments on it … in a way knowing people care.
When I see people sitting on a random street and crying, even if I don’t know them, I try to, if possible, just go up to say “hi, are you ok?”. I can honestly say that on more than one occasion, I have been told to “f*** off and mind my own business.”
Usually, those are the ones who are ok … I think. But that shouldn’t stop you from helping those who really need someone to talk to. Anyone.
The person committing suicide online, in all likelyhood was hoping for everyone to say stop.